A Festive New Year's Eve Dinner with Friends at ASA Restaurant & Rockin' the Night with Ryan Seacrest

Cecile and I had a wonderful dinner with our good friends, Susie and Nelson Bye and Dianna Martin-Orloff and husband Norm

at Asa Restaurant in Los Gatos, an American restaurant with influences derived from generations of Spanish and Italian heritage. This cool eatery was established to celebrate the birth of the owner’s son, Asa, whose portrait proudly hangs on the back wall. The restaurant also honors the entrepreneurial spirit of Silicon Valley, emphasizing invention and creativity.

We started with cocktails, and Nelson generously provided a bottle of Montagu Cabernet Sauvignon for the table from his collection. Collectively, we enjoyed Rainbow Beet Salad, A bowl of Veggie Soup, Fresh House Burrata; Baja Striped Sea Bass; Hokkaido Scallops atop mashed potatoes, cabbage risotto, sautéed mustard greens; Asa’s Exotic Mushroom Pasta; Hand Cut New York Steak with organic broccoli and a side Truffle Fries; and Eggplant Parmigiano with Burrata.

Asa Restaurant features an airy, chic, and contemporary decor that creates a comfortable and inviting atmosphere for diners. The open and clean design contributes to an ambiance that makes it possible to have a conversation, even though the restaurant was filled to capacity. The interior is thoughtfully arranged with comfortable seating and a series of wine collection racks strategically placed like furniture to enhance the overall dining experience. For dessert, each couple shared an awesome Banana Bread Pudding with rum, vanilla, cinnamon, brandy caramel glaze and whip cream on the side.

After dinner, we all headed back to our home and had some bite-sized desserts and relaxed in our den to watch Dick Clark’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve with Ryan Seacrest and an array of guest singers and dancers. It was a perfect mix of a festive celebration and enjoyable conversation. Of course living out in California, where it is three hours earlier than NYC or 9pm, we call it celebrating New Year’s Eve on NY City time.

Happy 1st Birthday to our Handsome Grandson Gus

It’s your first birthday

A milestone year,

A moment for smiles,

And a bundle of cheers.

It’s hard to believe

How fast time has flown.

You started out small,

But how quickly you’ve grown.

From rolling to sitting,

To a speedy little crawl,

To your first teetering steps,

You have conquered it all.

Peekaboo laughter,

Bright giggles of joy,

You’ve filled every moment

You handsome little boy,

You’ve had a big year,

And it’s time to celebrate,

So let’s gather around

Your first birthday cake.

Let's sing happy birthday,

We know you’ll have fun,

The candle will sparkle,

And we'll clap when we’re done!

Nonnie & Papa

Happy Heavenly Birthday: Chasing Away the Monsters for Dad While He Was at Death's Door

It was November 18, 2017, my wife Cecile and I flew in from California to New Jersey to visit dad. At a 100-years old his life was beginning to slip away. He was lying on the living room sofa which is where he slept since our mama Maria died on Mother's Day 2013. All the family were present, including my nephews from Texas. Some were taking turns sitting by his side. At one point dad’s hand was gripping my wrist tightly, almost as if he feared letting go would mean slipping into the unknown. His eyes, once so steady and reassuring appeared dim and vulnerable.

It reminded me of my childhood, when I’d had nightmares, convinced the boogeyman or monsters were hiding in the closet or under my bed. The monsters weren’t imaginary anymore—they were real, and they loomed over him like shadows. I sensed it in the way he clung to my wrist, the way his breaths became shallow and uneven, as if he was holding on to life with all he had left. “It’s okay,” I whispered softly, adding “You don’t have to be afraid. You can let go.”

Suddenly his breathing grew softer, more peaceful, and the tension in his face melted away. In that moment, I understood what James Blunt meant in the song “Monsters, he wrote when his dad was dying." The fear of dying, of letting go, was like the monsters from childhood—terrifying. Fast forward to 2024, James Blunt’s song “Monsters" sung by American Idol contestant and season 21 winner, 18-year old Hawaiian-born Iam Tongi whose dad died months earlier. It had brought me back to that day my dad firmly held my wrist, its lyrics echoing in this moment that brought the judges, and American viewers like myself to tears:

“I’m not your son, you’re not my father. We’re just two grown men saying goodbye. No need to forgive, no need to forget, I know your mistakes and you know mine…So daddy, won’t you just close your eyes, don’t be afraid, it’s my turn to chase the monsters away.”

Dad passed away on December 18, 2017 almost three weeks shy of his January 5, 2018 birthday with my sister Josie Augustine-Mcallister by his side. The following week he was honored by the Elks Club #74 at Failla-McKnight Memorial Home In Hoboken, NJ, and as a veteran he was honored at Holy Cross Cemetery in North Arlington, NJ with a solo Taps American bugle call and Flag Folding Ceremony with the folded flag presented to Josie. Happy Heavenly Birthday Dad. We were blessed to have you so long.

A Spark of Light: Vibrant Chanukah Grand Menorah Lighting & Concert at Santana Row

“A little light dispels much darkness.”

—Jewish Proverb

On Sunday my wife, Cecile, and I had the honor of joining the vibrant celebration of the fifth night of Hanukkah at Santana Row, thanks to our dear friend Rabbi Mendel Weinfeld. The San Jose Grand Menorah Lighting Ceremony brought together a heartwarming crowd of several hundred Jews and non-Jews alike, unified by the spirit of light, hope, and miracles.

Weinfeld, Brooklyn-born and the Chief Executive Director of Chabad House in San Jose, played a central role in organizing the event alongside other Chabad leaders, Santana Row, and the City of San Jose.

The ceremony was graced by city leaders, including Mayor Matt Mahan and District Attorney Jeff Rosen. Mayor Mahan shared his daily connection with Chabad House and pledged unwavering support to Rabbi Weinfeld and the Jewish community. The City of San Jose, in collaboration with SJPD, ensured that everyone could celebrate in safety and joy.

The highlight of the evening was a soul-stirring, high-energy Israeli-style concert featuring Barak Grossberg, Izik Lerner, and Moshiko Fogel. Their electrifying performances had everyone on their feet, including the rabbis! A guitarist from Haifa amazed the crowd with a solo played behind his back, leaving the audience in awe.

The menorah lighting itself was a moment of profound beauty. One rabbi transformed the act into an art form, performing acrobatic movements with a double-lit torch that captivated children and adults alike. The event was a true celebration of unity, resilience, and the power of shared light.

Hot Pot for Christmas Day Dinner & Lighting the Candle of the Menorah for Hanukkah

“Blending Christmas and Hanukkah shows us that the heart of every celebration is love, family, and light. This year, as Christmas and Hanukkah overlap, we embrace a harmony of traditions, creating a tapestry of warmth and joy.”

We all expressed our gratitude to Kyle’s mom, Kim and Al Chien not only for making us a wonderful brunch, but for preparing a Chinese “hot pot”!dinner with meat, fish, shrimp, bok choy, broccoli, and tofu. Before eating dinner, the menorah lighting was led by Cecile, with Lyla and Emmy at by her side that created a warm, communal celebration.

This year is especially meaningful with Christmas and Hanukkah overlapping for the first time since 2006. It was a perfect opportunity to celebrate both traditions in a unique and memorable way. The kids opened more presents, including Hanukkah gifts. The desserts were awesome and in my opinion we were blessed to enjoy one of the best holiday celebration as a family.

Happy Chrismukkah

Happy Chrismukkah to those who celebrate either one or both holidays like our family does emanating from Cecile’s ancestral heritage. “This year, for the first time since 2005, Christmas and Hanukkah fall on the same day. We figured, there’s no better way to celebrate ‘Chrismukkah’ than with a tribute to the Jewish Americans like Irving Berlin.

“Berlin drew on Yiddish and the rhythms and chords of traditional cantorial music to create our most beloved Christmas tunes. His melancholic masterpiece, of course, is ‘White Christmas,’ and he didn’t write it until he was in his 50s, when his career might have been winding down. The original was recorded in 1942 by Bing Crosby with the Ken Darby singers,” and Frank Sinatra two years later. White Christmas is still thought to be the biggest-selling single in the history of recorded music, bigger than ‘Billie Jean,’ I Want to Hold Your Hand,’ or anything Elvis.”

Attributed to Eli Lake, of The Freepress

A Family Christmas Eve Dinner at our Daughter Michelle & Kyle’s Home & an Appearance by Santa Clause

A Christmas Eve Poem:

The fire glows, the tree lights gleam,

A night of love, like a cherished dream.

Laughter spills and hearts unite,

In the magic glow of Christmas light.

The table’s set with care and cheer,

For kids and grandkids gathered near.

The little ones with eyes so bright,

Whisper wishes to the night.

With every hug, with every smile,

We pause to savor for a while,

This precious time, this love we weave,

On this enchanted Christmas Eve.

Postscript:

1-First Christmas Eve dinner at Michelle & Kyle’s new home.

2-Carrying on the Hawaiian theme from our vacation, we got Lyla & Emmy hula outfits

3-This was our grandson Gus’ first Christmas Eve

4-This was Kim & Al’s new dog Honey’s first Christmas Eve

5-Kyle pulled off being Santa Clause again without the kids ever suspecting.

Aloha & Merry Christmas or "Mele Kalikimaka" in Hawaiian to All our Friends and Family Near and Far

The song Mele Kalikimaka was made famous in 1950 by Bing Crosby and the Andrew Sisters.

Christmas season in Maui combines the festive holiday spirit with the island’s stunning tropical vibes. Instead of snow, you have sandy beaches and tradition trees and palm trees decorated with lights.

Its a chance to celebrate in shorts, bathing suits and flip-flops. Santa Claus often arrives in a canoe or surfboard. In many resorts including the Maui Marriott Ocean Club host special events like tree lightings, hula performances, and holiday luaus. It’s a perfect blend of relaxation, adventure, and celebration in a warm

picturesque setting.

A Poolside Hula Dance Show at the Marriott Ocean Club Captivates the Crowd

“Hula is the language of the heart. Therefore the heart beat of the Hawaiian people.”

—King Kalakaua

Cecile, Michelle, Kyle and I took Lyla, Emmy and little Gus to a 5 pm Hula dance show. They were absolutely mesmerized—as were we by the dancers—young and old alike swaying gracefully, in their hula skirts.

Hula is more than just a dance. It’s engraved in every part of Hawaiian culture, language, and way of life. Hula connects the past and present transcending time, reviving traditions once marginalized almost to extinction.

The traditional dance with graceful movement of hands, eyes, hips, and legs is the ultimate expression of art. Every hula move requires precision. But it’s the hands that tell the story and legends about the Hawaiian Islands, culture, and nature.

Note: See short video clip

Dinner at Hale Mo’olelo, the “House of Stories

Hale Mo’olelo, the “House of Stories,” beckons with an invitation to experience the spirit of Maui through the language of flavors and tales. Nestled within the embrace of The Westin Maui, this enchanting haven celebrates the island’s heritage, weaving together culinary artistry and cultural reverence.

Here, each dish and drink is a chapter, crafted with the soul of the land—farm-fresh ingredients whisper secrets of the fertile valleys, while cocktails sparkle with the essence of tropical blossoms and ancient traditions. The open-air setting, kissed by ocean breezes, becomes a stage for the sun’s fiery descent, painting the sky in hues as vibrant as the stories shared here.

Live music drifts through the evening like a gentle tide, carrying the melodies of Maui’s heart. Under a canopy of stars, Hale Mo’olelo transforms dining into a poetic journey—a celebration of taste, history, and the timeless rhythm.

Family Brunch at “The Gazebo” at Napili Bay

The Gazebo at Napili Shores Resort in Maui is a beloved treasure, nestled along the shoreline where the turquoise waves kiss golden sands. Kyle spent some of his younger years vacationing with his family at Napili Bay as Cecile and I did with our family on Kaanapali Beach. Since joining us for our annual island vacation with our grandchildren Lyla and Emmy, he and Michelle have have made it a ritual to treat us for brunch at The Gazebo. This is our grandson Gus’ first time on the island of Maui.

Known for its relaxed charm and breathtaking views, The Gazebo offers a sanctuary for visitors seeking a taste of Maui’s soul. As the morning sun rises, the gazebo serves up not just its famous pancakes, fried rice and island-inspired dishes, but also a feast for the spirit—a front-row seat to the serene beauty of Napili Bay. It’s more than a destination; it’s a moment suspended in paradise.

Where Nature Meets Spirit: The Sacred Outdoor Beauty at the Hyatt

The Hyatt Regency Maui Resort & Spa is a sanctuary where nature and artistry harmonize in a symphony of grace. Along tranquil lagoons and glistening ponds, waterfowl glide like sacred messengers, their movements a meditation in motion. Swans, ducks, and exotic birds become living symbols of serenity, their presence echoing the spirit of Aloha. Amid this verdant paradise, outdoor sculptures rise like silent guardians, their forms infused with the soul of Hawaiian culture. Each piece tells a story, a prayer cast in stone and metal, inviting reflection and reverence. Here, under the vast canopy of sky, the boundaries between earth, art, and spirit disse, offering a timeless communion with beauty and peace.

Dinner Under the Stars at the Hula Grill on Kaanapali Beach

Nestled on the sun-kissed sands of Kaanapali Beach, Hula Grill has been a beacon of Aloha since 1994. Here is where the golden glow of setting sun kisses the ocean, diners are welcomed into the open-air paradise, where gentle trade winds carry the fragrance of plumeria and the rhythm of the island comes alive.

Under swaying palms, a hula dancer glides gracefully to the strum of a ukulele, her movement is weaving tales of ancient Hawaii. Guests dine beneath the canopy of stars, savoring the freshest gifts of the land and see—line caught fish, crisp Maui-grown produces, and sweet irresistible sweetness of Hula Pie, a dessert as legendary as the stand itself.

The restaurant is not just a place to eat, but a celebration of community and culture. Its menu honors the bounty of Maui’s fertile lands and dedication of its farmers and fishermen. At Hula Grill, every meal is an invitation to slow down, to sip the cocktails as the waves lap the shore, and to feel the true essence of aloha—warm, vibrant and eternal.

Hang Loose Symbol & Connection to the Aloha Spirit Including Enjoying the Grandkids Play at the Discovery Pirate Ship Water Park

The “hanging loose” symbol, also known as a Shaka sign, is a hand gesture where the thumb and pinky are extended while the other fingers are curled into the palm. It originates from Hawaiian surf culture and conveys a sense of "aloha spirit,” which is a cultural philosophy of Hawaii that embodies value of love, respect, kindness, compassion, and relaxation, not only to others but towards one’s self.

Maui has endless ways to chill. In a general sense it means taking it easy and soaking up the island vibes. Whether you’re surfing, swimming, standing under a waterfall, sitting in a Jacuzzi, laying under a hammock, enjoying a sunset, watching your kids and or grandkids having fun, and taking a simple daily restorative yoga class.

Speaking of grandkids, it was such a pleasure to watch Lyla, Emmy and even baby Gus—who began walking about a month ago—play at the Discovery Pirate Ship at Marriott’s Maui Ocean Club—a fantastic kids attraction. It is an integral part of their expansive pool area and water park, designed with families in mind. The pirate ship is equipped with water slides, sprays, and a shallow area, making it perfect for younger kids to safely splash and play wile fueling their imagination.

Family Portraits Before a Sunset Dinner on Japengo's Ocean Front Terrace

“In the end, kids won’t remember that fancy toy or game you bought them. They will remember the time you spent with them.”

—Kevin Heath

The huge terrace at Japengo Restaurant in Maui offers one of the most convenient and beautiful ocean front settings for family portraits, especially during sunset. Overlooking the ocean and surrounded by lush tropical greenery, the terrace provides a stunning backdrop of golden skies, palm trees, and tranquil waters. The warm lighting at dusk creates a soft, natural glow, perfect for capturing memorable family moments.

It was a perfect ending to an active day at the pool, watching South African penguins being fed, and visiting the exotic parrots at the Hyatt Regency earlier in the day.

Joined by the Rest of the Family in Maui

The girls, Lyla & Emmy hit the pool running late afternoon yesterday after their flight from California, joining us for our second week. After a swim, wading in he waterfalls, Nonnie Cecile made us an Italian dinner, chicken drumsticks & salad.

This morning, Cecile, Michelle & I took the girls & their baby brother Gus to see the feeding of the penguins at the Hyatt Regency & saying hello to the parrots.

Savoring The Mystical Asian Art Collection at the Hyatt Regency Maui

The Mystical Asian Art Collection at the Hyatt Regency Maui exudes a mystical allure, transforming the resort into a sanctuary of ancient wisdom and serene beauty. As I wandered through the elegant halls, I encountered treasures imbued with the spiritual essence of Asia that reminded me of my travels and meditation retreats in India, Japan, Bali and Southeast Asia. Buddhist statues radiating calm, celestial Chinese ceramics that seem to whisper secrets of dynasties past, and eternal Japanese silk screens depicting landscapes untouched by time.

Each piece feels like a portal, inviting you to journey into the sacred and the sublime, harmonizing with the island’s own spiritual energy and the interplay of natural light and shadow across the artifact enhances their enigmatic presence, creating a sense of reverence and wonder. Exploring this collection isn’t just an appreciation of art—it’s an intimate dialogue with the mystical threads that weave through Asia’s cultural tapestry.

I allowed myself to linger, and in so doing I found the collection doesn’t just adorn the space—it transform it, casting the resort into an enchanting glow where history, spirituality, and nature converge.

Our Son Jason Treated Cecile and I to and Upscale Dinner at Sonz Steakhouse

Our Son Jason Treated Cecile and I to and Upscale Dinner at Sonz Steakhouse

At Son’z Steakhouse at the Hyatt Regency Maui, every bite is a celebration of elegance where the finest steaks and freshest seafood meet the enchanting glow of Swan Court—a dining experience as timeless as Maui’s sunsets. Swan Court is known for its picturesque and serene setting featuring swans, lush tropical gardens.and a stunning spot-lit waterfall.

For starters we ordered cocktails, Greek Salad, Caesar Salad, and chopped wedge salad with romaine lettuce, cherry tomatoes, bacon chips and blue cheese crumbles. We also enjoyed sharing side dishes of Brussels sprouts, macaroni and cheese, and potstickers.

Dearest Zaila: Honoring Love & Resilience on Your Bittersweet Birthday & the Passing on of Your Mom—Selina Marie Mcallister—to the Heavenly Realm One Year Ago Today

Today is also your special day, a celebration of “you" and the incredible lightness of being you bring to the world. I know it’s also a day that carries the weight of love and memories of your mom—my beloved niece and goddaughter—who cherished you so deeply.

As we honor both you and her today, I want you to know something important: her passing was not a punishment or a curse. We live in an imperfect world, one filled with challenges that none of us fully understand. Even though she went through some difficult times, your mom’s love for you was limitless, and her absence is a reflection of life’s unpredicability—not of anything you’ve done.

Your grandparents Joe and Josie too, are caught in between grief and love, and we all hold you and your mom close in our hearts. As always, they are there to walk with you through the difficult days and to celebrate the beauty of who you are becoming.

May your birthday remind you of the love that surrounds you, both here and in the loving whispers of your mom’s spirit—always with you. I hope you feel the joy and warmth you so deeply deserve today and always.

With all our love,

Uncle Dennis and Aunt Cecile

P.S. Zaila, the following timeless wisdom of Winnie-the-Pooh, the beloved creation of A.A, Milne, was posted on Facebook for you by your mom when you were younger:

"If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together

There is something you must always remember

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem

And smarter than you think.

But the most important thing is even if we are apart

I’ll always be with you."

Happy Birthday and Aloha to my Sister Josie In New Jersey: From Maui with Love

From Maui’s shores, where waves gently sing,

To New Jersey’s winter, where colder temperatures cling,

A birthday wish sails across the sea,

To my sweet younger sister, Josie—with heartfelt glee.

The palm trees sway in a tropical breeze,

Whispering wishes as soft as these.

May your day be bright, your heart so light,

Like Maui’s skies, a welcome sight.

I send you warmth from the island sun,

Aloha’s embrace for my special one.

Though miles apart, our bond still near,

In every wave, I feel you're here.

Happy Birthday sis, may you shine so true,

From Maui to Jersey, all our love we send to you.

Big Hugs, Dennis and Cecile & Family