Today is also your special day, a celebration of “you" and the incredible lightness of being you bring to the world. I know it’s also a day that carries the weight of love and memories of your mom—my beloved niece and goddaughter—who cherished you so deeply.
As we honor both you and her today, I want you to know something important: her passing was not a punishment or a curse. We live in an imperfect world, one filled with challenges that none of us fully understand. Even though she went through some difficult times, your mom’s love for you was limitless, and her absence is a reflection of life’s unpredicability—not of anything you’ve done.
Your grandparents Joe and Josie too, are caught in between grief and love, and we all hold you and your mom close in our hearts. As always, they are there to walk with you through the difficult days and to celebrate the beauty of who you are becoming.
May your birthday remind you of the love that surrounds you, both here and in the loving whispers of your mom’s spirit—always with you. I hope you feel the joy and warmth you so deeply deserve today and always.
With all our love,
Uncle Dennis and Aunt Cecile
P.S. Zaila, the following timeless wisdom of Winnie-the-Pooh, the beloved creation of A.A, Milne, was posted on Facebook for you by your mom when you were younger:
"If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together
There is something you must always remember
You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem
And smarter than you think.
But the most important thing is even if we are apart
I’ll always be with you."
