Francis is my middle name, chosen for St. Francis of Assisi — the same saint Pope Francis honored when he became pope in 2013, the year my mother Maria passed away at 88. The timing always felt like more than a coincidence. She adored him.
I was raised Catholic, attended Our Lady of Grace in Hoboken and St. Michael’s High in Union City, and over the years visited the Vatican. I’ll never forget seeing Pope John Paul ll with Cecile, Jason, and Michelle address the public in Audience Hall in 1993. I brought home rosary beads for my mother blessed by the Pope. The time before that I got a glimpse of Pope John XXIII when I was just 13.
Referred to "The Pope of the People," Francis brought heart and humanity to the papacy. He made 49 journeys around the world to be in the company of people.
His words—“If a person is gay and seeks God and has good will, who am I to judge?” It felt like a turning point. He led with compassion, not condemnation. He also said: "Be like St. Augustine"—my family name—and reflect on the story or the interior of your life.
Rest in peace, Pope Francis. For 12 years you led with love and you'll always be remembered!
Postscript: Potential succussors to Pope Francis are many and include Charles Maung Bo (Myanmar) who was made cardinal by Pope Francis in 2015.
