Celebrating a Jewish Festival with a Community BBQ at Almaden Winery Park

On the Jewish Festival of Lag Baomer, many Jews honor the great sage and mystic Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai, who, after spending many years reading the Torah [Hebrew Bible representing God’s revelation to Moses] continuously in a cave filled the world with a shining spiritual light.

When I read the invitation on Facebook, I noticed that aside from a BBQ and picnic there would be a bounce house, horseback riding, face painting, fun games, and raffle prizes, and a bonfire. I immediately thought of our granddaughters Lyla and Emmy. I posed the idea to our daughter Michelle and son-in-law Kyle, and they were all in. Much to Lyla’s surprise, two of her classmates and friends from her preschool attended. As shown in the photos the girls had a blast, as did all the other precious children present. Cotton candy and popcorn were served.

The invitation to attend this festival called "Lag Baomer" came from Rabbi Mendel Weinfeld, the founder, director of The Chabad House who was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York. In just a few years the young rabbi has won over the communities of the South Bay with his affable, upbeat, and welcoming personality. He has been to our home and we were invited—along with other guests to his and his wife Mussi’s home over a year ago for Shabbat (the Jewish Sabbath) during the Jewish New Year.

The Lag Baomer festival commemorates two historical events according to Jewish tradition: the passing of revered Second Century sage Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai, who proclaimed that the anniversary of his death be a time of rejoicing his life; and the end of a plague that killed some 24,000 students of another great rabbi, Akiva Ben Josef who lived around the same time as Rabbi Shimon. In Israel, on Lag Baomer, people flock to the site of Rabbi Shimon’s gravesite in a small village on Mount Meron in upper Galilee.

The day of celebration and special customs follows a 32-day period of semi-mournings for the deaths of the Akiva’s students. During these weeks, observant Jews refrain from pleasurable activities including weddings, haircuts or listening to music. But on the 33rd day (that the word “Lag” represents), these restrictions end and the day becomes one of the most festive in the Jewish calendar. Lag Baomer celebrations are particularly associated with bonfires, said to have a mystical significance. Some Jews attribute Rabbi Shimon with the authorship of the Zohar (means shining light), the foundational text of Kabbalah (Mystical Judaism).